Multi Tab Questionnaire Stage 1 Stage 2 Stage 3 Stage 4 Stage 5 Stage 6 Stage 1: Image-Making (Pre-birth) ❮ ❯ 1. I actively prepare mentally and emotionally for parenting. NEVER RARELY SOMETIMES OFTEN ALWAYS 2. I avoid thinking about parenting responsibilities before birth. NEVER RARELY SOMETIMES OFTEN ALWAYS 3. I discuss parenting expectations with my partner. NEVER RARELY SOMETIMES OFTEN ALWAYS 4. I feel disconnected from becoming a parent. NEVER RARELY SOMETIMES OFTEN ALWAYS 5. I seek information about parenting and development. NEVER RARELY SOMETIMES OFTEN ALWAYS 6. I rarely consider how parenting will change my life. NEVER RARELY SOMETIMES OFTEN ALWAYS Next Stage Stage 2: Nurturing (Birth to 2 years) ❮ ❯ 1. I respond warmly and promptly to my baby. NEVER RARELY SOMETIMES OFTEN ALWAYS 2. I often delay responding to my baby’s needs. NEVER RARELY SOMETIMES OFTEN ALWAYS 3. I enjoy physical closeness with my infant. NEVER RARELY SOMETIMES OFTEN ALWAYS 4. I feel overwhelmed and avoid interacting with my baby. NEVER RARELY SOMETIMES OFTEN ALWAYS 5. I create a secure and comforting environment for my baby. NEVER RARELY SOMETIMES OFTEN ALWAYS 6. I find bonding with my baby difficult. NEVER RARELY SOMETIMES OFTEN ALWAYS Next Stage Stage 3: Authority (2 to 5 years) ❮ ❯ 1. I set clear and consistent rules that my young child understands. NEVER RARELY SOMETIMES OFTEN ALWAYS 2. I calmly follow through when my child breaks a rule. NEVER RARELY SOMETIMES OFTEN ALWAYS 3. I explain simple reasons behind rules in ways my child can understand. NEVER RARELY SOMETIMES OFTEN ALWAYS 4. I often lose patience and punish harshly without explanation. NEVER RARELY SOMETIMES OFTEN ALWAYS 5. I let my child do whatever they want without boundaries. NEVER RARELY SOMETIMES OFTEN ALWAYS 6. I sometimes give in to my child’s demands to avoid conflict. NEVER RARELY SOMETIMES OFTEN ALWAYS Next Stage Stage 4: Interpretive (5 to 12 years) ❮ ❯ 1. I encourage my child to share their opinions and feelings openly. NEVER RARELY SOMETIMES OFTEN ALWAYS 2. I help my child understand why rules and family values are important. NEVER RARELY SOMETIMES OFTEN ALWAYS 3. I involve my child in problem-solving and decision-making appropriate to their age. NEVER RARELY SOMETIMES OFTEN ALWAYS 4. I often make decisions for my child without explaining my reasons. NEVER RARELY SOMETIMES OFTEN ALWAYS 5. I tend to ignore my child's feelings or dismiss their views. NEVER RARELY SOMETIMES OFTEN ALWAYS 6. I rarely talk with my child about fairness or personal responsibility. NEVER RARELY SOMETIMES OFTEN ALWAYS Next Stage Stage 5: Interdependent (Adolescence) ❮ ❯ 1. I negotiate rules with my teen ensuring fairness and accountability. NEVER RARELY SOMETIMES OFTEN ALWAYS 2. I impose strict rules without teen input. NEVER RARELY SOMETIMES OFTEN ALWAYS 3. I respect my teen’s growing independence. NEVER RARELY SOMETIMES OFTEN ALWAYS 4. I criticise or control my teen often. NEVER RARELY SOMETIMES OFTEN ALWAYS 5. I listen actively to my teen. NEVER RARELY SOMETIMES OFTEN ALWAYS 6. I avoid teen discussions. NEVER RARELY SOMETIMES OFTEN ALWAYS Next Stage Stage 6: Departure (Early Adulthood) ❮ ❯ 1. I accept my adult child's lifestyle separate from my own. NEVER RARELY SOMETIMES OFTEN ALWAYS 2. I continue to make life decisions for my adult child. NEVER RARELY SOMETIMES OFTEN ALWAYS 3. I offer guidance only when asked by my child. NEVER RARELY SOMETIMES OFTEN ALWAYS 4. I express disappointment if they choose paths I disagree with. NEVER RARELY SOMETIMES OFTEN ALWAYS 5. I maintain a mutually respectful adult relationship with them. NEVER RARELY SOMETIMES OFTEN ALWAYS 6. I find it difficult to transition from a parent to an advisor. NEVER RARELY SOMETIMES OFTEN ALWAYS Finish & See Your Reflections
